Love is in the air. Can you smell it? Can you see it? February is the month of love. It is the month where cupid works overtime and so do the chocolate factories. The day is February 14 and on this day no matter what, you will be loved by your partner or by yourself. Hey there is nothing wrong with a little self-love.

This is also that time where many couples will indulge in some type of fantasy. Many people have deep fantasies, often relating to dominance and submission. You may remember the boy in the corner who purposely forgets his homework simply so the teacher will teach him a lesson, and remember that bossy girl who makes fun of the weak kids. Well both could easily grow into the kinkiest and erotically in-tune adults, and hopefully one day find each other!

Well if this is the case for you, and you’ve found your perfect partner, but are not to sure where to begin, then check out these fun and frisky ideas. Do it! Do it NOW! ☺

It is pretty easy to figure out who will be play the role of dominant one and who will be submissive. Once this is figured out, start small. Maybe one of you has some specific requests, a foot fetish perhaps? For example, someone with a foot fetish would prefer sexy shoes or boots, or someone who likes to be blindfolded may require a selection of soft eye covers.

If you want to try some bondage, then get some sexy restraints. You can get wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs that can be used to hold your partner to a chair, post, the bed etc. You can also try some silky bondage rope. Get a book on different rope tying techniques and then practice tying each other up and having your way with them.

Role-playing is another way to explore your BDSM side. For this, cute and kinky costumes are a must. They could transform you or your lover into the sexy school girl, the naughty nurse, sassy secretary, the horny fireman, or perhaps a sweet, innocent maiden versus a blood thirsty night demon.

The sailor and the prostitute is also a great role-playing fantasy. It is actually one of my favorites.

You can also add cuisine to your fetish. Tie him up, beat him down and then gently feed him his dinner. Or get him to tie you up and tease you with strawberries and whipped cream. You can of course be wicked about it as well! An idea would be to tie her up with her legs spread open, so she cannot bring them together, then tie up her hands behind her back and get out her favorite c-spot toy like her vibrator. Then lube it up, and tease her with some sweet fruit and chocolate. Feed her a piece for a hint of the goodness to come, and the begin taunting her with the vibrator. Using sex toys can be a real sweet treat on its own, but adding these food items just adds some eroticism to it.

So play around with her, poking and probing her with the vibrator, until she can barely handle it. Feed her a piece of fruit occasionally, this will help her mentally link this sweet treat with the sensation between her legs. Also, her not being able to push her legs together will help her reach her orgasm faster, and stronger! Just before she orgasms, give her another piece of fruit and watch her experience an amazing orgasm, one so grand it will tingle all her senses!

This is just one kinky idea you can do to tease each other. Play around and get creative with your bondage gear and sexy fetishes. If he has a foot fetish, or some kind of fetish that can be tickled with sexy clothing or accessories, then why not lay him down and walk all over him with your spikiest heels and your shortest skirt! Get him to give your heel a good sucking, and maybe he should be licking and kissing your delicate ankle… then oops! An innocent little kick in the cheek! But make sure you tie him up first, so he can’t pounce on you!

Anyway you choose to play, enjoy your partner, and enjoy the sexy things you do together. Keep trying new things, and maybe invest in some kinky sex toys or some more interesting bondage equipment, such as a chair with built in restraints or a collar or spreader bar! The most important thing to remember is to have fun and explore each other. Happy Valentines Day.

Xoxo,
‘Zoey’